Hey everyone. I'm new, but I just needed somewhere to talk about my boy and the problems I'm having.
I have a 20mo male GSD called Archie. He's really turning into a lovely dog. He used to be very mouthy and not that nice, but he's much better now.
I'm 18. I live with my parents and two younger siblings. I have myalgic encephalomyelitis, an anxiety disorder and have had heart problems in the past.
I got Archie at 9 weeks, and I absolutely adore him. Love him to pieces. Prior to him I led a sedentary and terrified life, and infrequently left the home. I never went out alone, ever. I was pretty much debilitated. Anyway, since Archie my quality of life has improved tenfold. I walk him every single day and have only ever missed a single day, and that was because I had norovirus. I'm fitter, healthier, happier and less petrified.
My problem is that my brother and sister dislike Archie and my father thinks he isn't worth the effort and cost, and I should get rid of him. Only my mother really understands how important a role he has played in my recovery thus far, but even she agrees that he is going to make moving out of home and attending university difficult.
Now, Archie is a barker. I walk him sufficiently, take him to dog training every Tuesday evening with training sessions in between, but I have been unable to train him out of barking.
He's a mostly outside dog. He sleeps in the garage overnight, about 10 1/2 hours, so he never barks in the night except for if he has an upset stomach and needs to go out. Other than that he will spend about 1-3 hours inside with me, 30mins-2 hours on a walk, and the rest of the time outside. He has a spacious run, with a shade cloth and a kennel, lots of toys and if all else fails some dirt to dig in.
When he was about 4 months old, we got notification of a barking complaint filed against him, so we moved him to the other side of the house, where his barking could not be heard except for by the people to our left and right. The neighbours on our left used to have two very noisy Golden Retriever/Labradors, and so do not care if he barks. The neighbours on our right use the house ONLY as a holiday house, and are never there during the week.
Today, though, the neighbours to our right complained about him barking, stating that he has a loud, irritating bark and could we please train him not to bark. He is not a constant barker, he normally only barks if there is reason; for example if someone has driven down our driveway or there is another dog on the lawn. He does tend to bark at us if we go out on the deck and annoy him, and he has the occasion woof in between, but he is normally quite quiet -- certainly quieter than some other dogs in our locality.
When we got our first barking complaint, I spent ages with him trying to train him not to bark. Suffice to say, it did not work. It's natural for him to bark -- he's a dog, for God's sake. Dogs bark.
However, I am concerned that if he continues barking, and he will, the neighbours will call the dog ranger and he will be impounded. Heaven forbid if I get fined $200 dollars for failure to comply with barking dog abatement notice. I do not work, I'm pretty much incapable of it, and as such I won't have the money to pay for that sort of fine and I doubt my parents will be willing.
Options now are: attempted retraining, or, heaven forbid; a bark collar, debarking or rehoming.
For today only, at least, whenever Archie has started barking when he has been outside I have taken him into the garage, where his crate/bed is, and crated him. I have no idea if this has appeased the horrid neighbours or not, but I have reason to doubt it. And I feel mean, too -- Archie really rather prefers his run to his crate, and he already spends all night crated. He likes being outside.
At the same time I'm having pressure from the people at home to get rid of Archie, because he's too expensive, my father and siblings dislike him, et cetera. If I do then I will almost invariably go back to being sedentary and too scared to leave the house at all, which is an effective complete relapse just when I've been doing so well recently.
I don't know what to do. There's always the option of rehoming, and then getting a smaller, less expensive, easier to manage dog like a Shiba Inu which would be less offensive to the other family members, but I really, really love my Archie and don't want to give him up.
Edited by Bramber (27/02/10 08:54 PM)